2 Samuel 16 - How to Handle Criticism

What God had ordained in Nathan's words to David (2 Samuel 12:11-12) is now coming to pass. As David originally sinned on the rooftop by lusting after Bathsheba secretly, his son Absalom lies with David's concubines on the rooftop in full view of all Israel. As prophesied, calamity has come upon David from his own household.

To (literally) add insult to injury, as David flees to safety, one of Saul's relatives does his best Ernest T. Bass impression (apologies to those who aren't Andy Griffith fans). Shimei pelts David and his men with stones, cursing David and accusing him unjustly of being responsible for Saul's blood.

With all he is encountering, David must surely be tempted to grant Abishai's request to remove Shimei's head. Watch, however, how David responds...first, with an acknowledgment that the Lord has allowed this criticism, or maybe even engendered it (v. 11). Secondly, David entrusts this ill treatment to the Lord (v.12), hoping that God in His judgment and justice may ultimately make it right. Many hundreds of years later, David's great great great etc. grandson Jesus would perfect for all time the endurance of unjust treatment in view of God's sovereign control.

Questions: 1) Read 1 Peter 2:20-23. Note Jesus' approach to unjust treatment and criticism - not only to endure it, but to do so in full knowledge that God will ultimately judge the situation justly. 2) Reflect on your last week. Are you being ill-treated, slandered, unfairly criticized? Can you entrust yourself to the sovereign God who judges justly, and endure?